You are not un-selfish if you sprog, all I hear from breeders is "I WANT a baby" "I NEED a baby" "my husband won't GIVE ME a baby and I resent him for it" the reasons always begin with "I want"'s so you choosing to pop out a kid is not heroic or impressive or even un-selfish, YOU want a baby for YOU, so don't preach to me about how people who choose not to breed are selfish. I highly doubt your crotch dropping is going to cure cancer lady so give me a break. You want a mini me to worship and dote on you and to show off to other people to prove your vag works. If being selfish means donating for charities volenteering for causes , helping my friends and family when they need me then, yeah I'm a selfish bitch then.